My girl is doing pretty good. We have noticed that she does poop out a little faster than before and that she has been having more blue lip days after a lot of activity. We aren't quite sure why. She will be having a heart catherization done sometime this year. Other than that, she really is doing remarkable well which is a good thing. I am trying to get us to CHOP (children's hospital of philadelphia) because they have a single ventricle survivorship program. It is multidisciplinary which means it's a team of doctors (GI, cardiologist, etc) who do their tests, talk about her as a team and then talk to us. I love this approach (it's like middle school teaming which I highly recommend). I just want to be proactive about her health, especially when it comes to the other body systems. We heart parents tend to be cardiac centric which is good but when you change one body system, you affect the others because our systems are so interconnected. I read this article that basically said we are letting our heart kids down by thinking the fontan is a fix. It is in fact palliative which means it's temporary, like a band aid...it isn't a cure. It was hard to read that 1 in 4 or 1 in 5 fontan kiddos don't make it to their 20s. I knew it, but didn't...it's like the elephant in the room...nobody wants to tell you the reality but it is staring at you in the face. I think that is why I have embraced the carpe diem attitude with my girl. We literally do have to seize the day because we don't know when something could happen. I mean it could happen to any of us but with my girl I know that we most likely will have a limited time in comparison to other kids her age. However, we don't plan like it is. We were talking the other day of children. She wants to be a mom. She said she was going to be a mom and her friend, D was going to be a dad but they weren't going to be married. I asked her where the child was going to live and she said they were going to share and live next door to each other. She also said that when I get too old she'd drive me around as long as I teach her to drive first. I made her pinky promise that when I get old, she was going to take care of me and not throw me in an old folk's home. She said we were going to live together forever. That should be interesting when she's in middle school. I should record it and play it for her then.
Thursday, February 21, 2013
Posted by Jamie at 3:16 PM